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For Male Eyes Only!Face it guys. You’ve sent her flowers. You sprang for a housekeeper. You’ve tried the dirty talk. You even manned up and had a three-way with BOB. (Battery operated boyfriend) And she still has a headache! What gives? The sex life of a woman is a conundrum to most men. What do they want? What turns them on? And, most frustrating of all, why won’t they tell you? According to University of Chicago researcher, Dr. Edward Laumann, a staggering 43% of women suffer with sexual dysfunction. Lori Futterman, a researcher at the University of California San Diego says 85% of women have trouble developing desire in the first place and 10% cannot get aroused at all while an estimated 5% of women don’t experience orgasms.

In addition to these sky-high percentages, lack of desire is a chief complaint among women. Most guys have seen enough Oprah to realize that a woman’s sex organ is between her ears. But how does the typical red blooded American male engage in foreplay with a woman’s brain? It’s easy. Feed her fantasies.Women who fantasize enjoy rich sex lives. They’re up to try more positions, have fun with sex toys, outfits, you name it! It’s easier than you might think to encourage a woman to fantasize-and you just might enjoy it yourself. A woman’s libido is directly linked to emotions regarding romance and love. Remember when you first met her and your sole focus was on her attributes? She thought the same thing about you and she was always up for sex, whenever, wherever. Unfortunately,

familiarity tends to quell the hots you had when you were both in the thrall of lust. That doesn’t change the fact that women thrive on anticipation and knee-melting sexual tension in a relationship. With stress, life issues, jobs, children, and bills, how can you bring back that feeling of romance women crave? Try reading an erotic romance novel with her! In 2007, romance fiction snatched the largest share of the consumer book market with $1.375 billion in estimated revenue. Of those who read books in 2007, one in five read romance novels. (AP-Ipsos Poll) Romance novelists continue to thrive on the New York Times, USA Today, and Publishers Weekly bestseller lists. These are some strong stats.

Why?Because women enjoy the romance between two characters in a committed relationship. Contrary to popular belief, women don’t read romance because they are dissatisfied with their relationships. It’s just the opposite. Psychology Today states that women who read romance novels make love with their partners 74% more often than women who don’t. 74% guys. That’s an even stronger stat. In her article, Sex Lives, Bonnie Williams writes, “reading a romance novel…can help women shift into their “sex self” from their role as mother, wife, employer, or employee.” But how does a guy fit into all this? Romance novels are no longer your mother’s bodice rippers with cheesy covers and even cornier plots. The books now embody strong heroines who are ladies on the streets and freaks in the sheets. They are in charge of their sexuality and know what they want-and then ask for it in scandalous unladylike language. Not only is the terminology more graphic, so are the sex scenes which are far more plentiful than in the romance novels of old. Ellora’s Cave’s Romantica

” She tossed the lube and the condoms on the bed, turned and walked toward the dresser. The way her panties rode the cleft of her tight ass made him want to take her up on her offer. It made him want to do a helluva lot more than that. He groaned. She opened a bag of Hershey’s Kisses. “I got this chocolate in the gift shop. It’s not the kind the killer uses, but hopefully it’ll work.” Bringing the bag of candy with her, she climbed onto the bed. “Whoa, hold your horses now!” Trip rushed forward, intent on stopping her, but when his fingers encircled her arm electricity shot through him, racing up his arm, into his body and down both legs. His cock surged with blood. Her gaze drifted to his dark fingers encircling her arm and then lifted once more so that her eyes steadily held his. “I need you to tie me to the bed just like the victim. Blindfold me. Feed me the chocolate. Take off my panties. Do to me what the killer did.”Reading a short, sexy romance together might be just the thing to get her juices flowing-figuratively and literally!Spice up your sex life!o Go to the website of an E-book publisher (such as jasminejade.com) with your significant other
o Search by genre or theme for a story that will really turn her on
o Read it together
o Act out the love scenesShe’ll love you for it!About The Author

James Randi is the founder of the James Randi Educational Foundation and a professional skeptic and debunker of many outlandish paranormal claims. He has performed as a stage magician has appeared on numerous television programs, one of which was the Johnny Carson show where he embarrassed magician Uri Geller, by exposing his spoon bending routine as being nothing but stage illusion.Now I must say that I have nothing but respect for the service that Randi provides, especially in exposing many televangelists and their seeming miracle cures for what they really are, con artists preying on the ignorant who, because of their beliefs and personal problems are vulnerable to their elaborate and sometimes very convincing lies, deceit and distortions in the name of God. Randi has been instrumental in exposing some of these charlatans for what they really are

, bandits in golden vestments confusing the public by emphasizing cunning distortions of religious doctrine.Randi’s foundation has established a one-million-dollar prize to anyone who can show, under proper observing conditions, evidence of any paranormal, supernatural, or occult power or event. Now this offer has never been successfully challenged for one simple reason, paranormal events are usually only possible if they are “spontaneous”, otherwise, even the most accomplished psychic or medium will have trouble producing provable evidence. For that matter, these kind of phenomenon, must by their very nature, be random, unplanned and fueled by strong emotional impetus. That is why communications between the living and survival personalities are common. Paranormal events, then, cannot be forced, or demonstrated on command because the more you try to force them, the more you push them away from you.It matters not one whit whether you can prove a paranormal event to the one who has made contact with a recently passed relative, because to them, they KNOW and could care less if you believe them or not.

Take reincarnation for instance. There are countless examples of reincarnation with ample solid evidence, but to the non-believers, no evidence will be sufficient. What they are asking then, is that hard, factual, concrete facts be shown to prove the existence of something that is not of facts, but cause facts. They are the reality behind facts without which facts could not exist. Paranormal events are concrete to the person who has been on the receiving end of them, and no amount of criticism or doubts will ever convince them otherwise. The lack of physical proof is not surprising since these paranormal events arise out of inner desires and expectations reaching an emotional intensity that propels them into the physical system, while they remain invisible to physical perceptions.The real reason that I am discussing this at this time is that it is good to remain a little skeptical when dealing with people who make ludicrous claims of being able to produce psychic phenomenon at will. It simply can’t be done, and when you see it on stage or in the guise of a religious leader promising wealth, health and love, if only you will “Sew Your Seed”, translation, (give them money), run for the exits. Psychic events do happen, but usually when they do happen, you are looking in the wrong direction. I have said this before, it’s kind of like experiencing deja vous, not knowing intellectually, but really knowing inside. Paranormal psychic events are far more common than you know, but they are usually only experienced by those who believe and expect them and pay attention.If you were to follow Randi’s beliefs, then you would not believe in the existence of the Soul, for the Soul cannot be proven any more than an idea can be proven, but no one would deny that an idea exists.

The Pyramids exist, and no one would say different, but not one pyramid would exist if it were not for the idea and imagination behind it. This is the truth you are to learn from all of this; the true reality is not the physical object, but the mental act behind it. That which endures is not the objective reality, but the subjective source. A thought/idea sparked the creation of your universe and your world and the energy of your inner self supports you, your world, your environment and your universe. Were it not for the energy of the self conscious being, projected outward, the environment would not be sustained. This natural projection of energy is the supportive foundation for mountains and rivers, trees, flowers and the animals and when directed toward specific constructive materialization by self aware consciousness, results in cute little things like buildings, cars, wedding receptions and world wars.I would then offer to Randi, the Universe, as proof of a pretty grand paranormal event of gargantuan proportions that not even Randi could deny, but he would probably say “Prove It” and this, I nor anyone else as far as I know, could do to his foundation’s satisfaction.By the way, if you can replicate the creation of the universe from psychic origins, contact Randi’s foundation. The million dollar prize awaits.Posted by W. Allan at 11:02 AM